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Belinda Kan

Sending lots of love to all the Rubies with whom I have had the privilege to connect with on our amazing journey. May the journey continue to be amazing for us all!

xoxoxo,
Belinda

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Amanda Mullins

Looking forward to seeing you soon! XO

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Dear Rubies,
Knowing that this is the last chance for us to get connected through this wall, I have an hour left to take the chance to take a look and fully enjoy this site.
With all ups and downs I’ve had throughout this/past year, it was a process of learning and growing and this site, events and of course with Johnny and Lara and all of you, with your unconditional Love and support helped me learn and grow and become a better version of myself.
For all of that I can be only grateful and appreciative.
Love to all of you!

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Amanda Mullins

Love you!

Amanda Mullins

Dearest Rubies,

This journey with you all has been nothing short of extraordinary and life changing. As I go forward, I cannot undo what has been gained here and there is no money that could buy what I have achieved internally. I am a whole new person on a whole new planet and I am so blessed to have shared this all with you. I love you all so much.

Thank you,
Amanda
Love Warrior & Sister

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Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Dear Amanda,
The message you’ve shared is filled with so much Love, Gratitude and Appreciation. It is extraordinary!
Thank you for sharing strengths and weaknesses, being supportive, encouraging and inspiring everyone!

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Amanda Mullins

Thank you Kamelia! I appreciate you so much!

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Johnny and Lara and all Rubies who are in the USA and/or celebrate the 4th of July….Happy Independence Day!
Love and Light!

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Jean Morra
Jean Morra

Hi, loves! My heart is heavy with sad news: I fell last night and sprained my ankle quite severely, tearing lots of ligaments. My ankle is the size of a small football and will be dark purple very soon. I have crutches, but am very weak and clumsy with them. Took me all day to realize why: I am being forced to use my weak side, the side I injured 7 years ago. No wonder I am so wobbly on that one foot! That’s the foot that has a titanium plate and screws holding it all together and doesn’t stand flat. Because I can’t tolerate the long flight and even sitting at the dinner, I am unable to be at LWTC. Gah! So sad to miss this wonderful experience with you all! I am especially sad to miss finding out what the rope is for, and meeting the Shaman! And hiking in the magnificent outdoors with you! Maybe kayaking! My beautiful new dress will have to be worn another time, maybe on a future date. As for the new sleeping bag, well, we will just have to see about that. I love you. I am cheering you on! You can… Read more »

Rita Roy
Rita Roy

Oh dear Jean, so very sorry to hear that you have been going through such a painful experience!! You poor thing! I’m sorry we won’t get to see you at Love Warrior Camp. BUT, I feel you are still a Love Warrior even if you can’t go to the camp. I have no doubt that you will continue to be committed to the process as you have been throughout and that’s what makes you a Love Warrior. Your circumstances were out of your control entirely, and right now, you have to take care of yourself. Sending you a great many love and blessings in your continued journey!!:)

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Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Hi Jean, sorry to hear these news but as I was Rita’s post, Rita said it so well, you are a Love Warrior and nothing and no one will stop you from being with your soulmate!
Get Well Soon!
Love, light and blessings!

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

I missed out a word…as I was reading Rita’s post…:))

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Amanda Mullins

Jean, I am so sorry to hear this. You are very precious to me and I of course was looking forward to this part of the journey with you. I love you very much and hope you heal fast. XOXO -Amanda

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Jean Morra
Jean Morra

Thank you datlingn Amanda!

Melanie Wiscount

Hello Jean.

You may not be here physically but Kelly and I have you inside our hearts. We are taking you with us every step of the way.

Love you always.

Melanie

Melanie Wiscount

Hello Ruby sisters. I listened to the 6/30 call from Johnny this morning on my walk. It was so good to hear your voices and your celebrations. I am blessed to know each one of you. My celebration is the four days I spent with my college roommate Penny this week at Long Beach Island, NJ. It was so good to be in her energy. She is living her life with her soulmate so she is a wonderful resource in helping me create the right vibration to draw in my soulmate. I watched The Notebook when I returned and my soul feels so open to soulmate love in my life. The things that I am currently doing to raise my vibration are: 1) drinking hot water with Volcanic organic lemon juice daily 2) walking or exercising daily 3) meditation 4) eating healthy 5) getting enough of sleep 6) taking vitamins and supplements 7) drinking a green juice in the morning after my hot water 8) holding onto my boundaries 9) treating myself to manicures and pedicures on a regular basis (something I have not done in the past) 10) buying organic foods I look forward to seeing all of you… Read more »

Rita Roy
Rita Roy

Fantastic Melanie, good for you for taking so many steps towards your self-care!!

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Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Melanie, so wonderful for having some time off and spending time to rest and relax with a college being in a higher energy/vibration, drawing towards yourself a soulmate love!

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Amanda Mullins

Awesome! I look forward to seeing you! XO

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Belinda Kan

Hello Rubies!!! I’m sad that I missed celebrating with you last night, but I look forward to listening today. I worked until after 11pm EST – only the second call that I missed, after one back in September when I went to Rome, but was thinking of you while as Edwina was in my bedroom in NY listening to the call. It was so lovely to wake up next to Edwina and I’m so excited to see you all soon!

I’ll post my celebration here: I’m celebrating that I’m about to graduate from this program, which has been a truly life-changing investment in myself. Really and truly one of the best decisions I have ever made!

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Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Dear Rubies, I’ve just had a chance to listen to the recording of the last night’s call. Great to hear everybody’s celebration and here, I’d like to share my celebrations as well. I am celebrating doing a better self care, managing better my finances, having better relationships with co-workers….all that is much, much better than ever before. I feel so good about it and so grateful for this program for all the learning, the implementation and with that…the positive impact on myself. The things that I am currently doing to raise my vibration are: * Self care – massage, manicure, pedicure, aromatherapy at home, listening to my body for the time to relax, work, spend with others. ^Spending time with friends with positive attitude towards life…it is so uplifting! *Enjoying theater performances /Plays in The Park/ and movies with co-workers or Bulgarian friends and neighbors with similar interests. Thanks to this program, I’ve learned to value myself more. 1

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Such a powerful insight Kameila, keep up the awesome work!

Melanie Wiscount

Hello everyone. I want to announce that Deb Hamlin from the Emerald Wall, Cheryl Hammond from the Sapphire Wall, and I have started a secret and closed Facebook group named And So It Is. The url is: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1344527888962016/ However, if you try to use the link to get to the site now, you will not see it or have access. Only members can find the group and see posts which makes it a secret and closed Facebook group page. After the Love Warrior Weekend, we will use the email addresses in TLLP Community Forum to send each of you an invite to be a member of the group. I will also have a handout which I will distribute to each one of you at the Love Warrior Weekend. Group members invited will be the graduates of the 2016-2017 TLLP. Additionally, Lara and Johnny are also invited to be members of our Facebook group. We hope that we can use this online space to keep in touch, catch up, share with, and support one another as we go beyond the program. The energy of our community is powerful. Let us take this beautiful power forward in our journeys of soulmate love.… Read more »

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

It looks that you are sharing a celebration, Melanie.
Besides, a way to keep in touch with like minded women for a soulmate love. Congratulations for that!

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Great initiative – than you Melanie and co.!

Jean Morra
Jean Morra

Yay! Thank you all for doing this!

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Hello Ruby sisters! Well, I feel that outside my “calm time” in the morning with my workbook, life has been going a million miles an hour and in multiple directions. I did go and see Wonder Women a couple of weeks ago, and I have to say I came out in shock – the whole Love Warrior aspect completely bypassed me, I didn’t “get it” and I felt really down about it. I was so upset I had to debrief with my class partner Belinda, who offered me some wonderful personal insights, with some additional encouragement from Johnny and another LLP sister I went back to see it again this week. I went in feeling much more present, prepared to see myself as the Love Warrior within Wonder Woman, as well as taking notes to keep me focused throughout the film!! Such a difference! I was able to separate out the Hollywood “drama” and identify the powerful moments, despite the “slightly” different context, this quote still resonated… “The stronger she gets, the sooner he will come”. Love Warriors – bring it on!!

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Great notice, Edwina!

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Jean Morra
Jean Morra

Me, too, Edwina! My first viewing was not favorable: the war scenes, the “meet cute” plot – bleah! So I went again and paid attention only to Wonder Woman’s character – ah-ha! What a difference! Xoxo

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Cat Utschig
Cat Utschig

Hi Ladies, I’m wondering if anyone has any insight they’d like to share about the “accountability” days in the LW prep manual. I understand what the word means on its own, but I got a little confused when I read the part that says to be accountable for “something you believe in but have been telling yourself you just don’t like.” I’m not sure what that means. I’ve been trying to be more accountable for my words and actions, but I wonder if I’m missing something.

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Cat, the way I understand it is to be open in a conversation, able to explain, being responsible and as it is said in LW prep manual “being your best and doing your best”.
The closest synonym to me is being responsible.
But I am open to hear other opinions as well…

Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

A demanding day emotionally speaking here but I am realising that this is because I am GROWING; these are GROWING PAINS 😉 Also wanted to post, Love Warrior Sisters (feel the need to convert this into Spanish as in Spain = GUERRERAS HERMANAS! :-)), as I am simply full of gratitude today. I want to give thanks for you all Guerreras Hermanas, for Lara & Johnny and everyone who makes the LLP possible, and for the gift of my life actually. Looking forward to seeing you at all at LWW so much! Hugs and whooshes!

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Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

Opps missed the LOVE in LOVE WARRIOR – how could I??! = Guerreras Hermanas de AMOR!!!! Mamma mía!

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Lara Fernandez

Sí, tu estas creciendo, mi guerrera de amor! Woot!

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

I don’t know Spanish, Becky but I can see the love and gratitude you have in your heart! And that is amazing!

Cat Utschig
Cat Utschig

Can’t wait to see you next week, Becky! Kiss and whoosh!

Jean Morra
Jean Morra

Hello, fellow Love Warriors! Super excited about seeing you soon. I want to celebrate listening to my gut and making a change that cost me more money but that ensures a better experience. I booked a cheap hotel in SanFran and *then* read reviews that were unfavorable: noisy, can’t sleep; dangerous area. After seeking guidance from fellow sisters and rereading my journal notes from previous LLP weekends, I decided that I am worthy and deserving of a good night’s sleep and a comfortable experience. So I booked at a different hotel; the first hotel is nonrefundable – and that’s ok! In the past, I would not have allowed myself to admit making a mistake and then correct it. (Yes, 21 years of marriage!) I remembered Belinda’s Italy experience and how centered and grounded I thought Belinda was in handling it all – well, if she can do it, I can do it! Also, I followed J&L’s advice and had an energetic bodywork session: so very wonderful! And I can feel it 2 days later. Much love and gratitude for each of you! See you soon! Xoxoxo 1

Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

WHey! Hey Jean! What self-love and self-care and what a reaction to events – love it!!! Yes you can do it! Much love right back at you! XX

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Lara Fernandez

Jean, this is AWESOME. There’s so much awesomeness and self love in your post, I feel like it’s blasting out of my laptop onto my spirit. Thank you. You inspire and uplift us all with your courage to say YES to yourself.

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Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Great decisions, Jean, great self care…you deserve that!
Great to treat yourself with Love!

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Cat Utschig
Cat Utschig

Awesome, Jean! What wonderful self-care. See you soon!

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Amazing Jean! So much love and self-care for yourself! So beautiful to see you treating yourself with so much love and kindness. You are a Love Warrior!

Belinda Kan

Oh ladies how I’ve missed you all! I have been a bit underwater with a sudden flurry of work for an Amazon show about orchestras that shoots once a year. It’s ironic that I am working in this field since I don’t watch TV! Perhaps some of you have seen me on FB in a wig 😉 It feels good to be working hard and bringing people together for the purpose of sharing a story about classical music. I’m practicing doing it differently than I have in years past, more conscious and aware of the need to take care of myself even if I’m not doing it perfectly. Today is Encouragement day in my LW Prep Manual, and I want to encourage all of us to keep going for the life of our dreams because we are worth it! Nothing and no one will stop us, except ourselves. But we are stronger together, and if we tap into the collective energy of encouraging each other I know we can all get what we want! Hugs to everyone! 2

Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

What brilliant words of encouragement Belinda! Thank you! And YES we are so much STRONGER together and tapping into our collective energy is so powerful and beautiful. “Standing with you and for you too” Belinda (quote marks to acknowledge Edwina’s words, I am borrowing as they encapsulate what you are saying – thanks Edwina! [and spot the academic ;-)]) With love and encouragement right back at you!

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Those words are actually a beautiful sentiment shared by other powerful women working in the soulmate love space, I think they encapsulate our collective journey and illustrate how we can be strong and supportive for each other.

Lara Fernandez

Yes, yes, yes!!!! Don’t stop, keep going for it, no matter what. This is what Love Warriors do!

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

So wonderful reading these words of love, inspiration and encouragement, Belinda!

Cat Utschig
Cat Utschig

How fun! I watched the first season of that show a while back, that’s so cool that you’re helping to make it happen. Thank you for the encouragement! Can’t wait to see you at LW!

Amanda Mullins

Dearest Rubies,

This weekend I will be getting the rest of my stuff ready for Love Warrior Camp. I am so excited for this experience and to go forward with all of you into the next steps! I love the prep manual and I find doing it along with my workbook has been very powerful as they overlap in areas. It has also built space for me to take a bit more quiet time in the mornings and the evenings. I am pretty sure I am going to be doing that workbook for life I have enjoyed it so much.

Dear one, I am ready for you! I am a Love Warrior!

XOXOXO Amanda

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Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Hi Amanda, just like you I do both…the TLLP and LW workbooks and I love that. You are right, at times they overlap in areas.
I am also getting ready for the LW training camp and I am excited and excited to see everyone there….:))

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Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

I confess, Kamelia, I am only doing the LW workbook (as well as almost listening to an LLP call daily!)… will get back to TLLP workbook after LWW… and yes, I do want the workbooks to be a continuing feature of my life, this beautiful life we are co-creators of! 🙂 XOX

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

And yes, Amanda…I am ready to see my dear one too:))

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Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

hey Amanda, I see that for you, Love Warrior!
He’s on his way, your dear one. XO

Lara Fernandez

Love this!

Cat Utschig
Cat Utschig

Amanda, this is wonderful. The workbook is definitely a keeper. 🙂

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Amanda – I love the power of your words. Yes! It’s been an amazing journey, so much more goodness to come! Stay committed and on the path, he’s on his way to you 🙂

Kamelia Staykova
Kamelia Staykova

Hi Rubies, As I am reading your celebrations about the amazing things in your life I am very excited for you with all the great news you’ve shared…. about a trip to the Goodwill or set up a special place for a soulmate or walking on the streets in the Canary Islands or a clearer vision for a soulmate love etc. I personally was pretty busy working in the past 10 days, some of the time working double shifts /7am-11.30pm/ and finishing up some mandatory education at my two jobs … but with that said I found time to join the call life and listened to it couple more times and I absolutely love it! I watched the Wonder Woman, went to another movie to relax and enjoy on a day off after one of my double shifts, found time for some self care and planning to get more self care now /have some things in mind/ as I am expecting having regular hours at my job by the time of the training camp so that I put more time for myself. And … getting myself ready for the camp although we have couple more calls before that. 3

Amanda Mullins

Yes! Self care is so important! Look forward to seeing you at Love Warrior Training Camp!

Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

All best Kamelia with organising things so you can have more regular hours at your job so you can continue in your commitment to your self care – yeah! 🙂 See you very soon!

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Thank you for being such a wonderful example of high self commitment and self care Kamelia. Reading about your wonderful energy and actions to look after yourself and to gently, and sometimes firmly, put yourself first is really inspiring!

Jenny Horn
Jenny Horn

Hi Rubies!

I have commited to doing what ever it take to rid my self of the bedroom set I shared with my ex. I have tried to sell it several times on apps such as offer up, Let Go and Craig’s List. It was my original plan to put the money I made from it towards my new set. It looks like I am not able to find an interested buyer but made a commitment to myself to have it taken to The Goodwill this Sunday no matter what.

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Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

Yeah!!! Love this Jennifer! Love your commitment! Hope the trip to The Goodwill is fun! 😉 🙂

Amanda Mullins

That is great! Good commitment to yourself and to make room for more good in your life! XOXOX

Lara Fernandez

Powerful steps of self love and commitment to what you really want, Jenny.

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

Yes!! Awesome work Jenny – this is such an extraordinary action to demonstrate to the universe how committed you are to soulmate love and living the life of your dreams!

Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

Another quick share. As I say I am in Spain, on a student budget (all good). I reorganised my room in the hostel yesterday (to put the table by the window) and set a place for my soulmate 🙂 He’s right here with me in España 🙂

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Jenny Horn
Jenny Horn

I love how your man travels with you. I bet that’s on your list.:)

Lara Fernandez

Que padre, Becky! (Do the Spanish use that phrase, Becky? I know my Mexican friends and family use it)

Rebecca Fell
Rebecca Fell

Ditto Amanda and Belinda. I listened to the call recording yesterday 22 June, and have just downloaded it on my phone so I can listen to it as I wander around the streets of Las Palmas in the Canary Islands (I am at a conference on the Spanish realist author Pérez Galdós; this is the town where he was born and his house and belongings are here.) The call is very well-timed, isn’t it? I have been on 2 dates with a gentleman called Ben and this relationship exploration dance is touching all kinds of buttons, new and old, surprising and unsettling. It is certainly a “dance” (a wonderful metaphor!) I reiterate here to you my Soulmate sisters that I am committed to NATO and the Free Your Heart system and listening to group mentoring call after group call. XOXOX 3

Amanda Mullins

I love NATO! It makes things so much easier and so much fun!

Lara Fernandez

Wonderful!!!!

Amanda Mullins

What a great call yesterday! I have already listened 3 times. So much there to soak up. I am so grateful for this program and the clarity I have gained around my soulmate and above all my own life.

XOXOX

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Belinda Kan

I’ve listened to the call a bunch of times, too! And I had a really clear vision of being with my soulmate this time, much clearer than in past times.

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Amanda Mullins

Yay! That is just awesome!

Edwina Hollander
Edwina Hollander

I love reading how all you ladies have been so inspired by the last call, I’m looking forward to listening to it again.

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